The world seems to be overreacting to Cyber-relationships
Being naughty and glad-eye is normal human nature. Flirting or even sex-chatting is not infidility,The spouses, mainly wives are just getting scared due to insecurity, Every individual, married or single has right to his of her emotional, romantic and sexual fantacies.The last two of these will normally not have the spouse in it, Net gives an outlet to these fantasies. It’s as harmless as watching or reading pornography.
Net cannot be blamed for extramarital affairs, as persons inclined to it, will indulge in it, irrespective of net-sex.
People indulging in net-chat to any extent, can be sincere spouses and those not practicing it, are not above infidelity.
So. spouses crying and worrying over the fear of loosing their life partners to the net-freind, should rather try to bring life into their partner’s fantasies.
And the bottom line is that every person has a right to his or her private friend life, in life or on net. The extent however to be within the social norms and acceptance by the spouse depends on the faith in the relationship
Sanjay