07Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor No Comments

The Stripping Macho Cine Stars

movies, Sexuality and Sexual Trends, social trends
BARE and DARE !!!!!   Movies,besides being  the fashion statements for India,have always also,indicated the mood and trends of the society.The present change in the Heroes of Bollywood,from the chocolate guys to the tough he-men who bare and dare,is a reflection of the present day image of a ladies'  Dream man!(Out of Flavor-THE WEEK,Feb. 8,2009)   This change from the gentlemanly heroes,to the chocolate lover boys,followed by the metrosexual males,and now the rough and tough macho men, is the story of the changing attitudes of a woman towards her man,and her expectations from him,including the changing sexual trends,over the last few decades.The petite shy woman,of sixties,feared that they may get pregnant even by holding hands,and hence the soft spoken,gentlemanly heroes like Devanand,and AshokKumar survived on the screen,From mid seventies for almost a decade…
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06Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor No Comments

KNOW AND LOVE YOURSELF

emotions, GENDERS, interpersonal relationship, itrapersonal relationship, love, relationships
Knowing yourself is the initial mandatory requirement,rather than loving oneself,before you love another To love self or to love someone else,it is essential that one knows oneself well, The knowledge of our strengths,our weaknesses,our capability of adjustments,sharing, cooperation and our ability to accept the others is the basic reqirement to start any relationship, We must know the expectations we have,if any ,in that relationship and our limitations to go into a relationship with someone supirior or less privelaged than us,without getting complexed For this interoception and spending time with oneself,analysing ones own views is a must. Loving oneself can follow but only after we know ourselves well and this should be done cautiously,Loving oneself without knowing self can be dangerous.Once we start loving ourselves then it becomes difficult to adjust…
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05Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor No Comments

BREATHING SPACE !

friendship, love, relationships
 Commitment doesnt mean surrendering personalities !   each of us are unique and have the right to live lives our way,within the norms of society and without depriving others of their rights or hurting dear and near ones being differant does not mean being indifferant we can luv each other without aping the person we luv we need our breathing space  Sometimes we feel relationships are all about supporting each other in times of need. That's what friends and family are for, we think. But there are times when we go overboard in our expectations. We expect their lives to hinge on our feelings and opinions. For instance, you've been ill for a while now. Is it fair to expect your family and friends to do little other than rally…
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04Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor 1 Comment

WORLD CANCER DAY

cancer
TODAY IS WORLD CANCER DAY !   Cancer is the epidemic of our times Lets join hands in Fighting Cancer   Say NO to smoking,alcohol,pan ,masala and tobacco Be Cancer Aware Spread Cancer awareness Consult your Doctor at the slightest doubt periodic medical check ups Eat healthy food like green vegetables and fresh fruits with carotenes Decrease,fast food,frozen,and smoked food from your diet adopt cancer patients for treatment and care CANCER CAN BE CURED-IF DETECTED EARLY FIGHT CANCER REGARDLESS TOGETHER WE CAN   regards and best wishes sanjay   Col Sanjay Kapoor VSM Senior Advisor & Prof Surgical Oncology
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04Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor 1 Comment

LUCK BY CHANCE

movies
----- REALISTIC AND REFRESHING !!!!!!!!!!!!!   Heartiest Congratulations to Zoya Akhtah for her marvellous direction of LBC.It was pleasure indeed watching Luck By Chance! The Akhtar family is proving beyond doubt that talent runs in blood and is passed through genes.Farhan and Zoya Akhtar are not only making Javed proud,but are showing great promise and potential,and one expects more of such and even better work from then in future   Though the story of LBC is nothing new,and its all heard and all seen,still the presentation is great,refreshing and revealing!The movie bares the underbelly of the harsh Bollywood industry,but subtly,emphasizing more on the struggling of aspirants in filmdom,in the ruthless city of Mumbai.and meshed in this struggle is an  unsuccessful love story.Farhan Akhtar plays a struggling star,who falls in love…
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02Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor 3 Comments

GAJHNI

movies
DOUBLE IMPACT !   GAJHNI left me dumb and numb,by its double impact!The softness of the romance and the harshness of the violent revenge,both were intense,touchy and effective! It was a great movie,and proved once again that Amir Khan's dictum of concentrating on quality,really gives grand results,and the movie has proved beyond doubt that any project,attached with Amir,is an outright winner!   Amir not only takes pain,in conceiving the movie,but also in the minutest details in its creation.His involvement is commendable,and he not only eats,drinks,sleeps,but actually lives,the movie or the project he has on hand,during the production.And the best part is,that his involvement doesn't stop there,his campaigning and marketing are so beautifully planned,that the masses feel as if thy are a part of the movie and the production team,even before the movie…
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01Feb 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor No Comments

LOVE

love, relationships
LOVE Love may be undefined but it is thee supreme emotion Its definition may wary from person to person and from time to time but it has remained the final destination of all relationships Love is togetherness,companionship,freindship,acceptance,tolerance,adjustment and commitment. Love is the best thing that can happen to a person,an experience which is sublime and eternal. Love is beyond age,gender,class,religion or creed. It is beyond the manmade social and geographic boundaries Love is a state where the mere thought of the loved one brings emmence pleasure Love is complete in itself and needs no rules or promises Love is erotic,sexy , orgasmic and the ultimate source of everlasting happiness Love is life
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27Jan 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor No Comments

BENEFITS OF SEX !

love, relationships, Sex, Sexuality and Sexual Trends
BENEFITS OF SEX   sex is the most wonderful thing besides being most exciting and entertaining,it has innumerable benefits   its the best relaxation its the best sedative,to give a sound sleep it releases tension it burns calories and so is a good substitute to workout--hence sexercise its the best way to patch up its the best way to say sorry its the best way to end a bad day its the best way to end a GOOD day its the best way to start a day good sex at night leads to a pleasant day and a pleasant day leads to good sex at night,and the cycle goes on   regular sex decreases chances of heart attacks hormones secreted during sex keep cells young and skin healthy   sex…
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22Jan 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor 2 Comments

SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE!

movies
MIXED REACTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   We Indians are known to go aboard with our reactions and over-reactions to many a things but reactions evoked by Danny Boyle's latest film,from India and abroad have probably been the most that any movie has ever earned,not only in numbers  or magnitude but more significantly in the wide range of difference in opinions,swinging from one end of the pendulum to the other,and including great admiration and outright condemnation( All It Boyles Down to-OUTLOOK,Jan 26,2009)   It evoked mixed emotions in my mind too,and frankly speaking,even including few thoughts like comparing it to Satyajit Rays,portrayal of poor India ,though not as intense as expressed in the Big B's blog.I also reacted the way I did to Water,a movie which though shall be in top ten of my favorite…
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20Jan 2009 by Sanjay Kapoor 1 Comment

CHANGING SEXUAL TRENDS

Sex, Sexuality and Sexual Trends, social trends
CUT OUT THE GORY DETAILS, PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Its good to see that over the last decade or so,the media has taken the lead not only to utter the forbidden three letter word -SEX,but  that too at length,but most of the gory details in the Cover story-Sex on the Run(OUTLOOK-Jan 26,2009) could definitely be dropped!   OUTLOOK is a family magazine,and if a person like me,who is quite uninhibited,can feel a little uncomfortable going through the article,I can very much understand the reaction of the other readers.And besides this,those details are actually not required to put the message across.If we are discussing the changing sexual trends in the country,then the issue can be well addressed without the much unwanted data,on who does what,when and how ! The inclusion of data on…
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