Soul fractures are more common than the routine injuries and almost all of us must have experienced them at various stages of life,in varying intensities.To treat them too,is a more difficult task than to tackle the routine bony injuries.Though the common notion is to relate to a soul fracture being caused by a lover, it may be from any soul mate. Such a breach in relationships may be from spouses,siblings,parents,children,friends,teachers, students or anyone for that matter.This is one ailment where the good old proverb of – prevention better than cure,is most aptly suited.I suggest the following to prevent heartbreaks or soul fractures in any relationship .
- Add meaning to everyrelationship–dont have a relationship for the sake of social commitment.Make friends in relatives and make relatives in friends
- Give time – let the relationship grow,love at first sight usually happens only in movies and novels
- Never take someone for granted
- Breathing space – give the other person adequate privacy and time for personal life
- Be a friend – dont go looking for a friend ,be one and the world will be full of friends
- Shed off load – dont carry the burden of dying relationships End them if they are not viable
- Work on them – one has to keep working on every relationship to keep it alive,or it will not last for long
- Be expressive – communication and expression of love and emotions is mandatory for the sustainance of any relationship
- Be prepared – no relationship is beyond the danger of souring so go all out to nurture it
- Acceptance – accept your friend as it is with minimal changes,if you want to be accepted,Basic temperament of a person cannot changed
Give all your love to all your relatinships to prevent your soul from being fractured
Sanjay Kapoor
Just a thought “Is it that simple as it feels to write and read??” If it was I think we would have less stressed people in world.
I feel it easy to WANT all these traits but difficult to follow/give.